Saturday, January 23, 2016
Examples of Real vs. Perfect
Dishes in the sink because I chose to watch a movie after dinner with my family
........vs....... your sink should always be empty and sparkling
Blankets strewn across the living room this morning because of watching above said movie
......vs........ always tidy up the house before bedtime, nothing should be out of place
Frozen pizza for lunch because I didn't want to cook after grocery shopping
......vs......... if you feed your family processed foods, you are poisoning them.
Ponytail, no makeup and yoga pants on when my hubby walks in the door
......vs....... you should always freshen your makeup and fix your hair just before your husband arrives home.
Writing my name in the dust on my coffee table
......vs........ today is Tuesday, let's dust the entire house.
Talking to God while washing the dishes
.....vs........we should rise an hour before our family and spend quiet time with God.
Come on in, make yourself at home, oh let me move that blanket out of your way
......vs...... I can't have people over unless my house is spotless.
Taking my neighbor a tater tot casserole when they had a bad day
.....vs...... I must fix a three course meal in order to bless someone.
Pepsi, a bag of chips and some french onion dip while cleaning my house because that is a real thing
.......vs........ I must never put junk in my mouth if I want to be healthy and a good fitness example to others.
Saying I'm sorry when I lose my temper and yell at my children
..........vs........We must be perfect examples of Christ, maintaining self control in all areas at all times.
Popcorn, blankets and movies all day with my family - maybe even ordering pizza so I don't have to cook
.......vs........We must never be lazy, always busy with our hands.
These are just a few examples of my real life. Yep, they've all happened at one time or another. I tried to use some extreme perfects just to make a point, but please know that if you do any of the "perfect" things because that is how you like it, GREAT!! I just don't want us believing we are any less of a wife, mother or person because we don't do them. Remember, it is all about finding what works for us and our own families, not trying to live up to some standard "they" set for us - whoever "they" are.
I want us to live in grace and freedom. I want us to relax and enjoy life, to love others and let go of trying to be perfect. Just. be. you. If that means having a spotless house, awesome - just don't expect that if you come visit me. ;)
Blessings my friends,
Rashel
To read the post that inspired this post, click here.
Saturday, August 1, 2015
Increasing My Running Speed and Endurance
Saturday, April 25, 2015
It IS Important
I'll start tomorrow. It's only one donut. We're all going to die anyway.
Yeah, I here people say these things all the time as excuses as to why they aren't taking care of their health. There are always excuses. Tons of them. There always will be. Be let me just say this...
IT IS IMPORTANT!
God created our bodies to be awesome, functioning machines, but we must put the right fuel into a machine for it to operate correctly. You don't put kool aid in a gas motor and expect it to run. So why would you think your body is any different? Yes, you will still live awhile, you will still breathe and be able to move - for awhile. Eventually, you will start slowing down, you will blame it on aging but is that really the reason. Maybe, just maybe, it's because you haven't been taking care of your machine properly.
Sometimes you don't even realize how sluggish your machine is running because it has become normal to you. Until I cleaned my system out I had no idea how bad I really felt. I was tired a lot, I had headaches often and my tummy was always rumbling. It was life, that was just how I was and I had gotten accustomed to it. Thank God He didn't allow me to stay like that. He nudged me and encouraged me to get healthy and I cannot tell you how thankful I am for that. I feel like a new person. I have energy I never had before. My headaches are few and far between, and quite honestly only when I eat poorly. My stomach is much quieter and I sleep SOOO much better.
IT IS IMPORTANT! And what is more - IT IS WORTH IT!
You are worth the effort it takes to eat healthy! Your family is worth it, they deserve the best you that you can give them. God is worth it.
Yes, God!
How can you serve Him to the best of your abilities if you aren't the best you that you can be?
Your body is not your own, it is His. He bought it with a very high price. He is just letting you take care of it. So, how good of a job are you doing at that?
This might seem a little blunt, but sometimes that is exactly what it takes for some of us to see the truth.
Your health is important to God because you are important to God!
I'm running this same race with you and I know it can be really hard, but sister, it is so worth it. I pray that you start this journey, restart this journey or continue this journey - wherever you are right now, I am here with you. You are not alone. God is here too, always!
Wednesday, April 1, 2015
THM Honesty Time and Advice
I'm going to be completely honest with you - I've been off plan for a few months now. I made excuses why I couldn't do it, even posted about why I wasn't doing it but to be totally honest, I was just being lazy. I didn't exercise self control or will power. Then it was just easier to justify why I was off plan with excuses, which I did believe at the time - but I was wrong.
Yeah, my family did start eating junk but that was my fault, not THM's. I got lazy and slacked when it came to fixing them healthy food. It was just easier to let them buy the junk.
Yes when I fix off plan baked goods or meals, it takes a lot of self control not to eat them or at least not to eat TOO MUCH of them. But I SHOULD use self control in all things. It is a fruit of the Spirit that I must use and train at all times.
I could go on with all my excuses, but that is all they are, excuses. And boy did I sell myself on them for awhile. I know that Trim Healthy Mama is the best way for me to eat. I feel so much better when I stay on plan- more energy, no headaches and just overall feeling good. Yes, it takes self discipline to stay on plan, but it does for any healthy eating plan and that is a character trait we should all strive to strenghten in our lives.
I wish that I wouldn't have wasted those months eating off plan, my body has more healing to do now, but I will just learn from it and move on.
I started back on plan last week, consistently and do you know what? When I am committed to the plan, I actually enjoy it! I enjoy finding new healthy recipes. I enjoy knowing that what I am eating is nourishing my body instead of poisoning it. It is totally a mind thing with me. When I am committed and excited about it, it is fun and doable, but when I let negative thoughts about it come into my mind, it becomes drudgery. When I start allowing negative thoughts in, then I start finding excuses not to do it.
The bible tells me to think on the good things, the praise worthy things, the true things - THM is good for my health in so many ways. That is the good, praise worthy truth! I will think on that and I will continue to enjoy my journey.
I also recommend finding an accountability buddy, it helps so much! If you don't have someone you can count on, join Two Grand. There are so many THMers on there that will gladly help you. My username is RashelTHM, look me up, I'll help you!
I pray that at least one person has been encouraged by my honesty in my struggles. May you be blessed and strengthened in your journey.
Rashel
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
Preparing for Christmas All Year
Monday, February 24, 2014
My Makeshift Pantry
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Are you too busy making your life "better" that you're forgetting to live?
Monday, February 17, 2014
Skirts Made From Old Pairs of Jeans
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
30 ways to save money
Here are just some of the things we do or have done to save money:
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Choosing God's Path
Monday, March 25, 2013
Flaky homemade biscuits
Monday, March 11, 2013
My priorities are straight
Since I haven't been posting much lately, I just wanted to take a minute and let you know I am doing well, as is my family. My blog isn't the only place I have been MIA, I haven't been online much at all lately. It just isn't my priority right now. I am so thankful that God has helped me to get my priorities straight. I know for many of you that blogging or reading blogs isn't really an issue and I am so thankful for that, but for me it was. I would think I was just going to sit down and write a quick post or read just a few blogs, but it inevitably turned into hours on the computer. Those were hours I should have been taking care of my home and family. Oh, I always had the excuse in the back of my mind that I was learning important things I could do around my own home or being encouraged by someone in my faith, and while that might have been true, it was still wrong. I was spending all the time reading about new skills instead of doing those skills, or reading about being a Proverbs 31 woman instead of just being one.
I know that I have written about this before and I could link to those other posts so you could read more about it, but I don't want to be your reason for spending too much time online. So my advice, turn off your internet and go DO something. You know what needs done, a game played with a little one, some towels folded that are piled on your couch or maybe you need to start supper. Whatever is waiting for you, go do it. Then when all else is done, you can get a cup of coffee, get back online and read a FEW blogs, but please don't let the blog world keep you from what is really important, the real world.
Blessings my friends,
Rashel
Monday, January 28, 2013
My Azure order for the month
*Note to self, my son is very much like this and extremely dislikes trying new things, even to the point of tears at times, now I understand where he gets it. I really hadn't realized I was behaving this way until I started thinking about/writing this post. By the way, I am certain that my grammar in this post is horrific! I hope you will forgive me and love me anyway.
Okay, back to my order, because I know you are just dying to know what I ordered. I mean really that is the whole reason you even started reading this post in the first place isn't it? And it's the reason you are reading through all of my rambling, to know what I ordered and how simple it is, right? Well, I won't make you wait any longer, here it is...........
Monday, January 14, 2013
Out with the old.............

Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Some goals for the new year
- Eliminate all processed sugar from my diet, this includes any food that contains processed sugars. I will allow myself honey, sucanat and raw sugars.
- Drink my coffee black or use only stevia.
- Consistently drink 64oz of water daily.
- Exercise two times a week. I know most people say three, but I am focusing on a doable goal right now.
- Eat fruit at least two times a day. I have not been doing good at getting enough fruit in my diet.
- Eat RAW vegetables at least twice a day.
- Keep kombucha made.
- Learn to make 2-3 fermented foods that we enjoy, using Nourishing Traditions.
- Learn to make kefir.
- Learn about 5 herbs and their uses.
- Find a properly combined bread recipe. This is one of those I will work on throughout the months as I have time, I just hope to have come up with one by the end of the year.
- Follow my home management binder consistently.
- Work on Christmas presents throughout the year.
- Keep track of all of our spending.
- Increase my pantry/preparedness stock.
- Declutter each room thoroughly.
- Keep meals and bread in freezer at all times.
- Keep up with my sewing.
- Have a better garden this year and preserve more of the harvest.
- Make a family favorites cookbook.
- Make soap.
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Crockpot yogurt
Okay onto my yogurt making. I have been needing to make yogurt for awhile because I have so much extra raw milk. We have a nearby family that sells us raw milk for $3 a gallon and I am so blessed and thankful for it. My problem is that we sometimes don't use all I buy and while I do use it even when it sours, I really wanted to make sure I wasn't wasting a drop. This crockpot recipe uses 2 qts at a time, which I love and it was super easy to do. My other recipes required a lot of precision and didn't make much at one time. This yogurt didn't turn out as thick as I would like but I can strain it. Next time I might let it stand just a little longer to see if that helps at all, but it is still good and makes wonderful smoothies!
Here is the recipe I used. I tried to find out where it came from and all I figured out is that this recipe is all over the internet, so I don't know who to give credit to.
--1/2 cup store-bought natural, live/active culture plain yogurt (you need to have a starter. Once you have made your own, you can use that as a starter)
--frozen/fresh fruit for flavoring
--thick bath towel
The Directions.
This takes a while. Make your yogurt on a weekend day when you are home to monitor.
Plug in your crockpot and turn to low. Add an entire half gallon of milk. Cover and cook on low for 2 1/2 hours.
Unplug your crockpot. Leave the cover on, and let it sit for 3 hours.
When 3 hours have passed, scoop out 2 cups of the warmish milk and put it in a bowl. Whisk in 1/2 cup of store-bought live/active culture yogurt. Then dump the bowl contents back into the crockpot. Stir to combine.
Put the lid back on your crockpot. Keep it unplugged, and wrap a heavy bath towel all the way around the crock for insulation.
Go to bed, or let it sit for 8 hours.
In the morning, the yogurt will have thickened---it's not as thick as store-bought yogurt, but has the consistency of low-fat plain yogurt. You can flavor with fruit as desired.
Blessings,
Rashel
Friday, April 13, 2012
Garage sale finds
Thursday, February 16, 2012
Time and Money Saving Tip
We use a pet grooming kit with an additional set of guards. We just choose the size we want and do the same length all over for the boys, dh has his a little longer on the top than the sides. It is really simple and saves us lots of time and money. Not only do we not have to pay for the haircut, we also don't have to take the time out of our day to load every one up and drive to the barber.
Here is a picture of dh cutting one of the boys hair awhile ago, obviously not now because we are in the middle of winter and this picture is in the summer! I gave the boys haircuts yesterday, but didn't take any pictures, so I added this one. Enjoy.
Friday, January 6, 2012
Azure Standard - I'm totally overwhelmed
Thank you in advance!
Rashel
Monday, January 2, 2012
Monthly Grocery Shopping
I came across a really encouraging blog post at Jabez Farms, although it has nothing to do with organizing my bedroom! She shares her struggles with spending too much at the grocery store and how she decided to start monthly grocery shopping. Her thoughts really encouraged me to reevaluate my own grocery shopping, I currently shop every two weeks and spend $250 for our family of 6. However, I must admit that I usually make a couple stops at a local dollar store in between and spend a little more there. I really need to stop that. I've decided to at least try monthly grocery shopping and see how it works for us. I have always gone every two weeks because that is how hubby gets paid, but I think I can make this work and it will save me a lot of time. I'm still in the early stages of planning this, but I will try to post my plans and my progress as I go. There are some things I still don't know when it comes to how I will do it, but one thing I know for sure, hubby will love it if I can find another way to money and I will love gaining the hours I would normally spend shopping!
I will post more as I make my plans and I will follow up and let you know how it goes when I shop. How often do you grocery shop?
Blessings,
Rashel